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Conflict at Work Playbook

$69 Go to price and purchase

A difficult conversation is easier to handle when you have thought through what to say and how to respond. The Conflict at Work Playbook helps you raise issues early, prepare for tough conversations, and stay steady when tensions rise.

FormatKit
Contents6 PDF guides, 1 Word document, 1 Excel workbook
UseInstant download

Start with the free Conflict at Work Check. Twenty workplace situations show what is driving the conflict and which step to take before it escalates. You will have a starting point before deciding whether to buy the playbook.

$69

  • One-time purchase. Editable files.
  • Your download link appears on the confirmation screen and in your receipt. No account needed.
  • Request a full refund within 30 days with one email.
  • Licensed for one company's internal HR use. Resale and redistribution are not permitted. Read the license.

Checkout takes place on our store at shop.truestephr.com. Any applicable sales tax appears at checkout before you pay. These files provide general HR information, not legal advice.

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Add a one hour Setup Session, $149

Bring your purchased tool and the situation you are working through. A TrueStep HR practitioner will help you set the inputs, make the first decisions, and identify a practical next step.

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Where to start

Choose one workplace conflict to work through.

Record your check result in the Workbook, then use that conflict for your first practice conversation.

DecisionDevelop your managers, Handle an employee issue
IndustryCross-industry
Files6 PDF guides, 1 Word document, 1 Excel workbook
ReviewRead our published standard for how we develop our tools, and what we cover for their scope and limits.
Research and standardsExplore the background reading: Conflict at work

Fit

Is this the right fit for your work?

A good fit

  • You need to develop your managers or handle an employee issue.
  • You want editable Word and Excel files that stay with your organization.
  • You or a manager will run the process and want a clear sequence to follow.

When to consider another option

  • For advice about one person's specific circumstances, consult qualified counsel.
  • For rules specific to one state or city, consult the applicable local requirements. This tool is not written for any one state.
  • For help running the process, explore our advisory services.

What is inside

Every file in the download, by name.

Taken from the kit’s own Start Here guide, so what you see here is what you open after checkout.

PDF · readStart Here: a guide to every file and the order to use them.
PDF · readConflict Conversation Planner: plan one specific conversation from start to finish, including a scripted opening and drafted close.
PDF · readQuick Reference: the whole workbook on one page, including what each tab does, what to enter, and how to read the result.
Excel · useConflict Action Workbook: track your check results over time, live conflicts with agreements and check dates, practice sessions, and a dashboard.
Word · editConflict Scripts and Templates: exact wording for important moments in a conflict, plus an agreement note template.
PDF · readTrueStep HR Product License: what you may and may not do with your purchased files.
PDF · readUsing This Workbook in Google Sheets: how to upload the file and what to check afterward.
PDF · readThe Conflict at Work Playbook: a practical guide to the four areas from your check, the steps for each, and a 30-day plan.

How to use it

Your first 15 minutes

Start with step 1 below to see what is included and how the pieces fit together.

  1. Begin with the Playbook chapters covering the areas your check flagged. Each chapter is short and ends with practical steps you can take this week.

  2. Record your check result in the Workbook and choose one live workplace conflict to work through. Use it as your first practice case.

  3. Work through the Planner page by page, then hold the conversation within two weeks. The opening and close are scripted. The middle gives you room to practice the conversation skills.

  4. When a conversation gets heated, a negotiation stalls, or the same issue returns, open Scripts & Templates. Use the suggested words almost verbatim when they fit. What you say in those moments is what people remember.

Conflict at Work Playbook Start Here guide showing the complete file list and the order to use each file.

Before you buy

Questions about your purchase

Find details about file formats, delivery, licensing, and refunds.

What exactly do I receive?

You receive 6 PDF guides, 1 Word document, and 1 Excel workbook, all named in the What is inside section above. This is a one time purchase, delivered as a download, not a subscription.

Are these the real screenshots?

Yes. The first image shows the file set, and the second and third show actual pages from the current download.

Can I use the files in my business?

Yes. You can edit and brand the Word document, fill in the Excel workbook, and read or print the PDF guides for your own internal operations.

What if I need help applying it?

For help implementing this tool, book a one hour Setup Session for $149. For broader HR support, advisory begins with a short request and a written scope at truestephr.com/pages/advisory. For legal questions, consult qualified counsel.

How do I get the files?

Right after payment, your download link appears on the confirmation screen and again in your email receipt. All files arrive as one ZIP. No account is needed.

What do I need to open them?

You can use Word and Excel, LibreOffice on a computer, or Google Docs and Google Sheets in a browser. The alternatives are free. Any PDF reader opens the guides. See download help.

What if it is not right for us?

Email support@truestephr.com within 30 days for a full refund. No form or explanation is required. The full terms are in the refund policy.

Is this legal advice?

No. It is general HR information and a working method. It is not written to any one state unless the page says so. Where a decision turns on the law, use qualified counsel. See what we cover, and what we do not.

Who may use the files?

One license covers the internal HR work of one legal entity. You may edit the files, brand them, and issue them to your employees. Consultants and groups with several entities need the extended license. See the license.

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